Ok. So I just finished watching Frozen, and first of all, I haven’t seen a movie in years that made me feel so warm hearted. This movie even beats all of my Wes Anderson favs, by far!
Anyway, for some odd reason Frozen made me realize something:
If someone doesn’t know or show if they care about you, love you, or even value your friendship, after a years time, then they honestly don’t. Perhaps they like you, perhaps they find you attractive? However their feelings do not reach more than that.
When you love somebody, you want them to know. You want them to know how special they are. You want them to know that they’re loved.
When you care for somebody, you don’t give them a sign of mixed signals. Of course being myself I over analyze things, and might take it the wrong way if someone ignores me for a few days. But only because they have never gave you any type of insurance of letting you know by actually telling you that they care about you. So obviously your anxiety kicks in and a million things pop into your head wondering if you’re doing something wrong.
When you value someone’s friendship, you don’t just use them for one thing one day, and completely forget about them the next.
So, it doesn’t matter how much you love them, how much you care, or how much their friendship means to you.
You may feel that way, but they most likely don’t.
I’m not telling you to give up hope on love. Love is amazing! And if you love somebody, I hope and wish that they love you back for your sake.
Just in my case, I know that this is never going to work. And tonight I finally accept that. Doesn’t mean I’ll stop loving him, because honestly I still do, and perhaps I always will.
But it’s time to let go of: what if.
priscillajohn 